Being loyal to God, to your parents, to your spouse, to that friend, or those in authority is not a state of being weak but a state of maturity to keep your commitments and obligations, no matter how you feel or the pressures you might be facing.
Daniel 6:4-5
So the governors and satraps sought to find some charge against Daniel concerning the kingdom; but they could find no charge or fault, because he was faithful; nor was there any error or fault found in him Then these men said, “We shall not find any charge against this Daniel unless we find it against him concerning the law of his God